{"id":55,"date":"2014-06-26T10:50:03","date_gmt":"2014-06-26T08:50:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/?p=55"},"modified":"2020-05-01T12:12:30","modified_gmt":"2020-05-01T10:12:30","slug":"semplice-gelosia-o-patologia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/archives\/55","title":{"rendered":"Semplice gelosia o patologia?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"western\" style=\"line-height: 150%;\" align=\"justify\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/edvard-munch-gelosia_15.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-56\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/edvard-munch-gelosia_15-300x229.jpg\" alt=\"edvard-munch-gelosia_15\" width=\"300\" height=\"229\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/edvard-munch-gelosia_15-300x229.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/edvard-munch-gelosia_15.jpg 740w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\" style=\"line-height: 150%;\" align=\"justify\">L<span style=\"font-size: large;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">a <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">gelosia<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> \u00e8 un fattore emotivo <\/span><\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">ambivalente<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> caratterizzato da odio nei confronti della persona amata qualora questa sembri provare interesse per un altro individuo. Entro certi parametri la gelosia non va vissuta come <\/span><\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">disturbo psichico<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">, il problema insorge quando la gelosia non \u00e8 determinata da un\u2019effettiva carenza di affetto ma di altri fattori.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\" style=\"line-height: 150%;\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><b>La gelosia patologica\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/gelosia-pato.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-57\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/gelosia-pato-231x300.jpg\" alt=\"gelosia pato\" width=\"231\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/gelosia-pato-231x300.jpg 231w, https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/gelosia-pato.jpg 463w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 231px) 100vw, 231px\" \/><\/a><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\" style=\"line-height: 150%;\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">insorge anche quando non esistono rivali. Sono connesse a situazioni frustranti presenti e remote. Nell\u2019individuo <\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">geloso patologico<\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">, tanto forti sono state le frustrazioni passate, tanto estrinseca la gelosia nel rapporto sentimentale. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\"><strong>Delitti Passionali: <\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">a<\/span><\/strong>livello<span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> comportamentale, si \u00e8 riscontrato che la gelosia passionale pu\u00f2 indurre la donna ad uccidere la propria rivale mentre l\u2019uomo la propria amata. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\" style=\"line-height: 150%;\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Si pu\u00f2<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> classificare la <\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Gelosia Patologica<\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> in quattro Gruppi.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<p class=\"western\" style=\"line-height: 150%;\" align=\"justify\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><b>G<\/b><\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><b>elosia Proiettiva:\u00a0\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/protettiva.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-58\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/protettiva-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"protettiva\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/protettiva-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/protettiva.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/b><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Esiste un luogo comune che recita \u201cchi tradisce \u00e8 geloso\u201d, ed \u00e8 vero, vediamo insieme il perch\u00e9: la gelosia patologica \u00e8 una forma di \u201c<\/span><\/span><em><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">proiezione<\/span><\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">\u201d per cui l\u2019individuo geloso attribuisce alla persona che crede di amare le sue personali tendenze all\u2019infedelt\u00e0.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p class=\"western\" style=\"line-height: 150%;\" align=\"justify\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><b>Gelosia Per Complesso Edipico<\/b><\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p class=\"western\" style=\"line-height: 150%;\" align=\"justify\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/complesso.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-59\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/complesso-300x208.jpg\" alt=\"complesso\" width=\"300\" height=\"208\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/complesso-300x208.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/complesso.jpg 547w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a> <\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">E\u2019 un complesso non risolto per cui l\u2019individuo proietta sulla persona che crede di amare un attaccamento morboso &#8211;<\/span><\/span><em><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">geloso<\/span><\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">&#8211; che in realt\u00e0 avrebbe col genitore. Si verifica uno spostamento dove il soggetto esprime un <\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">attaccamento morboso<\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> anche nei confronti del partner, quell\u2019attaccamento che ha nei riguardi di un genitore.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p class=\"western\" style=\"line-height: 150%;\" align=\"justify\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><b>Gelosia per Aggressivit\u00e0 Modificata<\/b><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p class=\"western\" style=\"line-height: 150%;\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/aggressivit\u00e0.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-60\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/aggressivit\u00e0-270x300.jpg\" alt=\"aggressivit\u00e0\" width=\"270\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/aggressivit\u00e0-270x300.jpg 270w, https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/aggressivit\u00e0.jpg 473w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 270px) 100vw, 270px\" \/><\/a> Qui l\u2019individuo<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> \u00e8 inibito <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">ad un&#8217;aggressivit\u00e0 indiretta<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> conferisce nel rapporto sentimentale tutte le sue frustrazioni; la gelosia infatti diventa un mezzo necessario per estrinsecare tutta la sua <\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">rabbia<\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">. A livello comportamentale, ci sono persone apparentemente tranquille che purtroppo diventano violenti dentro le mura domestiche.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p class=\"western\" style=\"line-height: 150%;\" align=\"justify\"><strong>Gelosia per sovracompensazione.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p class=\"western\" style=\"line-height: 150%;\" align=\"justify\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Tiziano_The_Miracle_of_the_Jealous_Husband.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-61\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Tiziano_The_Miracle_of_the_Jealous_Husband-216x300.jpg\" alt=\"Tiziano,_The_Miracle_of_the_Jealous_Husband\" width=\"216\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Tiziano_The_Miracle_of_the_Jealous_Husband-216x300.jpg 216w, https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Tiziano_The_Miracle_of_the_Jealous_Husband-740x1024.jpg 740w, https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Tiziano_The_Miracle_of_the_Jealous_Husband.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 216px) 100vw, 216px\" \/><\/a> <\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Qui l\u2019individuo compensa una frustrazione inibita dai legami affettivi (ad esempio gelosia verso un fratello minore o maggiore) con una <\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">frustrazione reattiva<\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> nel rapporto sentimentale. L\u2019esempio classico \u00e8 dato da un soggetto chiuso e dal temperamento timido, che nel rapporto sentimentale compensa con un atteggiamento fisicamente <\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">violento<\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">. Questi soggetti sentono il bisogno di usare violenza fisica e trovano nella gelosia il capro espiatorio. Associano il rapporto affettivo di <\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">odio\/amore<\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> per il fratello, con quello ambivalente della gelosia sentimentale.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"western\" style=\"line-height: 150%;\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Ora sorge una domanda leggittima:<\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> E\u2019 amore? <\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Assolutamente no. Questi soggetti non sanno amare, riescono solo a distruggere e fare del male a chi gli sta accanto. Il punto \u00e8 un altro, chi gli sta affianco, \u00e8 una persona sana?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>La gelosia \u00e8 un fattore emotivo ambivalente caratterizzato da odio nei confronti della persona amata qualora questa sembri provare interesse per un altro individuo. Entro certi parametri la gelosia non va vissuta come disturbo psichico, il problema insorge quando la gelosia non \u00e8 determinata da un\u2019effettiva carenza di affetto ma di altri fattori. La gelosia &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/archives\/55\" class=\"more-link\">Continua la lettura di <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Semplice gelosia o patologia?<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-coppia-famiglia","category-emozioni"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":62,"href":"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55\/revisions\/62"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rosaannavillani.it\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}